Broke up two weeks ago.... He was being really loving for three days after and texting me I love you and sweet dreams. Then one night I was mad and I just told him "that loving someone doesn't always mean it's right" after that didn't hear from him for two days.... He did text my sisters and asked how I was doing.... So I texted to see how things were... my mistake. We talked for a bit then one of his friends was drunk so I said goodnight but he said no I'm more important. I was tired though and passed out. He sent me two snaps of two stuffed animals that I like the next day but that's it. Then we talked the Saturday after that so it was good and he was being friendly until it got sad.... He posted a video of a family going through hardship and said "it reminds me of you" then we almost ran into each other at a place we used to hang out but we didn't and he went someplace else with other friends. He blamed me for a friend getting drunk but I can't buy drinks. I told him it was to clear his own conscious because he said he was trying to make me mad so I could move on. He said sorry and we continued to talk and it was ok but then we got into a conversation about "how he's barely 22 and it's only his second year of doing whatever he wants" so I was like ok. But then he was saying he could change for me like he said the day I ended things. This got more confusing, and so the next day we were talking and I flat out said "I feel you don't want me back" he said "why do you keep thinking that!" And I was confused so I let it go. He texted me finally later two days and it was casual conversation so I was like ok... It's been a week and haven't heard anything. But he texted my sister saying he missed hanging w her. I'm highly confused on what he wants or thinks. I wanted to make things work but I got tired of waiting. In the end I just left and hoped maybe he'd see he had to work to fix things this time. We've fought but Never broke. Do you feel he will want to work it out?
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I think he does not even really know what he wants and until he knows what that is he is going to be nothing but confusion and heart ache for you. Just the fact he would even bring up his age means he is far more concerned with himself and what he wants to do, then he is with being in a relationship. Some people just can't handle attachment and need to "live it up while they are young." he will figure it out one day but I would not recommend counting on it or waiting for it. Being there as a friend is always nice but only if you can really handle it and be okay with that.0
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