Currently my ex bf is walking my dogs. (his idea). This has been going on since late September when he said he was buying a condo. I honestly have not even seen him in the flesh since October. He texts me randomly about his life or how " busy" he is with working, buying a house & interning/going to school. Sometimes he won't show up to walk them & then texts me saying how sorry he is that he's just been SO busy...
We dated for 81/2 years. He left me over a year 1/2 ago. I was devastated. We did not speak for about a year.
Then he tried getting in touch with me. Eventually telling me he missed me.
Over the summer we were intimate a few times & I thought we were reconciling... Then one day we kissed & he says he's " so stressed out between school/ work blah blah & .. One thing at a time" that was months ago..
well I'm honestly at a loss for words & still in a lot of pain over him. I'm trying to better myself & focus on me. Really, I'm just confused as to what I am in his life if I am anything anymore.. He knows exactly how I feel about him. I'm afraid to say anything.. I'm still just in so much confusing pain over all of this. Not sure what to do any longer.
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"We were together for 81/2 years."<----- longest relationship ever...:-P