So, today my ex posted that he's in a relationship today on Facebook (yes, I'm still friends with him even though I unfollowed him). I wouldn't have known this if I hadn't seen them together in his snapchat updates. I removed him after seeing the images, because honestly it hurt me to see him with someone else, and I didn't want to keep doing that to myself.
We only broke up about a month and a half ago and were together for two months, yet we were friends on FB during that time and never made it "FB official" or whatever. So why would he go and put their relationship on FB and not ours? That makes me think that he wants me to see, so he can show me that he's over me even though after we broke up HE kept texting me, and I responded politely, yet didn't give in to his attempts at getting me back into his life. He only stopped texting me like a couple weeks ago, which makes me think that they got together in that short time.
I do still care about him to some extent, but the way the relationship ended makes me not want to be with him again, since I feel like he didn't really care about our relationship. So, good for him that he's in another relationship I guess, but it's kinda messed up that it ended because he was too busy essentially, and I didn't want to be with someone who couldn't at least prioritize me in their life, so I suggested a break up if things didn't change. We just kinda drifted apart after that without any closure really, as he never responded to the that text until a week later.
So I had accepted that he was too busy or whatever, and have pretty much moved on since. And when he tried to come back into my life, I told him I was too busy, which I am now due to working two jobs and going to school simultaneously. Then he goes and gets into another relationship... what happened to being "too busy"? It just hurts knowing that someone you cared about wouldn't be straight up with you from the start, and throw you away like yesterday's news.
- He doesn't really care about me.Vote A
- He is trying to make me jealous.Vote B
- Other opinions? Leave your thoughts below!Vote C
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I don't know it almost seems like he is trying to make you jealous while at the same time not caring about you or what you had. I feel this way because he never made your relationship Facebook official but now he does. He broke up with you cuz he was too busy is hogwash lol. You make time if your too busy. Could be something else he didn't tell you when you broke up1
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