My ex and I share our son and after I went no contact for about a month (only time talking or seeing was when we exchange out little) boy he asked if we could be friends. So, I told him I'd think about it and he then asked me for a hug. I gave him one. Not too long after this my brother passed away and I didn't have reliable transportation to drive 4 hours away in my car. So I called my ex and the phone went to vm. Since I was on a time table I drove by his house. All I needed him to do was take me to the bus station. So i knocked on the door and all of a sudden I heard him tell someone not to answer the door, then the next thing he did was say that's it Im calling the cops.
I feel that he was extremely hostile and unecessary. I cannot comprehend how he could ask me to be friends one minute and the next threaten to call the cops on me. It's not like I have been stalking or blowing up his phone post break up. Why do you think he did what he did?
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... I feel that he was extremely hostile and unnecessary...
With what I am reading, it doesn't have to be etched in stone here, dear, that your "EX" is not glued tight, has mental issues and is like this time bomb who goes off when you least expect it.
There is no use in trying even to be friends till the end, I am not seeing this in this Big picture. The writing on the wall and all points to disaster and a train wreck just waiting to... Continue down a beaten bad path.
Make arrangements strictly that would only pertains to the little guy you share and get on with your own life and, even Consider 'Calling the cops' if you would need their help down the road.
He is One way 'One minute,' and another Way another and definitely not a blast, just one from the past you should try and avoid.
Good luck. xx