Most Helpful Guy
You should follow your own heart, create your own destiny. This is your choice and yours alone. One man will support and encourage you in the best way he can. Another will say you are wasting your time, because he wants to follow his own agenda. I know there are many good guys who would support you every step of the way. That's what a loving partnership is all about. Equally, there are many who will only do what THEY want to do and ignore your needs.
I think you should maybe look for someone more compatible. They are out there.
Most Helpful Girl
If you love him then fight but if can't see him in your future break it