She dumped almost a few months ago, and she dumped me for another guy. Gave me all these excuses and suggested friendship. I sorta accepted and she went straight into her new relationship afterwards and it's already lasted longer than her and I have. I don't think I can ever forgive her, it always leaves a bitter taste in my mouth when I see them together. How could she just jump from me to him so quickly and easily? It makes me want to beat her bf up. "You took my girl", "You made her dump me"! etc etc.
It hurts even more when she seems to be doing all she can to keep in touch with me. She's still extremely open to conversation with me and I'm doing my absolute best to stay no contact but it's virtually impossible. She'll always find a way to come talk to me in person, I can't really hide and so I keep the convo short and cold. But she doesn't get the message.
Should I stay friends with my ex and just give up about getting her back? Or should I give her the cold shoulder and drop her completely (tell her straight up to f* off?).
- yesVote A
- noVote B
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I dont care what no one says, you can't be friends with your ex. We all tried it, and its possible but its not healthy. Im not saying give her the cold shoulder, its okay to speak. But other than that, let her do her and you do you. I understand completely, im so in love with my ex and I would love to be friends, but i know it isn't good for my health... or my sanity0