About 10 minutes ago, I broke up with my girlfriend through text (Yes I know it's ****** up but I didn't want to do it in person). I told her that she was very mean and rude to me sometimes. She responded by saying "I had no idea I was mean but I do come off as aggressive, you should've said something sooner." I told her "it's best if we didn't see each other anymore because I don't find aggressive women attractive." She said "Ok babes." I won't let any woman treat me like crap. Besides, she didn't seem bothered by it anyways. Right?
Most Helpful Girl
She's probably the type to conceal her feelings.
She probably was covering up her hurt.
But yes, she had a point.
You should have told her that in the beginning perhaps she wasn't aware of her aggressive behavior.
You know how many times I have to point things out to people about themselves because they don't seem to notice it? It's like these traits are embedded in certain people so deep that they don't even know it's there.
But congrats for standing up for yourself !
Whether sooner or later, it is great you didn't tolerate it2
Most Helpful Guy
Getting dumped can hurt anyone. Even if she was about to dump you, getting dumped first could still hurt her self esteem. I suspect it bothered her more than she showed. A lot of the time people don't want to show pain in front of the person dumping them.3