Most Helpful Girl
She's probably the type to conceal her feelings.
She probably was covering up her hurt.
But yes, she had a point.
You should have told her that in the beginning perhaps she wasn't aware of her aggressive behavior.
You know how many times I have to point things out to people about themselves because they don't seem to notice it? It's like these traits are embedded in certain people so deep that they don't even know it's there.
But congrats for standing up for yourself !
Whether sooner or later, it is great you didn't tolerate it2
Most Helpful Guy
Getting dumped can hurt anyone. Even if she was about to dump you, getting dumped first could still hurt her self esteem. I suspect it bothered her more than she showed. A lot of the time people don't want to show pain in front of the person dumping them.3