So, this is a long story.... I had been with my ex for 4 years, he moved in with me pretty much straight away and we had been inseparable ever since. He adored me, would always tell anyone who would listen how much he loved me, posted it online CONSTANTLY (to the point where it made people feel sick how in love we were) and I genuinely feel like he IS my soul mate.. We talked about our future, marriage and kids a lot and 6months ago he set up a joint bank account for us to start Saving for a house and a wedding.... We went away for Valentine's day and he bought me a sentimental gift and wrote lovely loving words in my card, as he always has done. Then the weekend after we went to a family party (his Side of the family), everything was fine... But then the following week, COMPLETELY out of the blue... He ended it. He was so upset but very angry.. I had never seen him like this. He didn't really have an explanation, just that he didn't want 'this' any more.... I was completely blind sided.. I begged and pleaded for him to stay and talk it out but after 10 minutes of ending it he was out of the door... I sent him a long message asking how he could throw away all the memories and plans.. He replied the next day Saying he wanted to talk. He came round that night and was ALL over me, kissing me cuddling me, saying he loved me but needed space. I agreed to the space and off he went after kissing me goodnight, but said if I wanted to talk he would talk.. 2 days passed and I contacted him saying I miss you. No response.. I continued to kinda harass him that day not know why he wasn't responding (I was very emotional and was showing it)... A week passed without me contacting and he didn't either then his brother blocked me on Facebook. So I contacted my (then boyfriend just having space) and said what's going on.. Bluntly he said its over,,, that day he cancelled our joint account and blocked me off everything. WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON.. It's been a month but I'm confused :(
What I have learnt from this is to never let anyone make you feel like you have done something wrong! As he ended it with me without a reason I spent the past two months wondering what I did and if I could change it. So glad I found out he had cheated as its made me realise things weren't so perfect.
I'm getting on with my life :)
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That guy is a real loser.. He used you. Played with your emotions.. Sorry to tell you but you gotta move on.. I know these kind of guys.. They just enjoy everything like married couple and then suddenly break up like nothing happened.. I am really sorry for what you're going through.. all you can do is just move on.. Spend time with your friends family and don't think about it anymore2
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