So this is something I've been trying to wrp my head around, but nothing. Why is when a woman who is who is pregnant break-ups with her boyfriend people see that as fine and that she's doing it for the best. But if a guy was to do it he would be seen as a deadbeat. And I'm not talking about the guys who get a girl pregnant and run because those are deadbeats. The men I'm talking about are men who even after breaking up actually want to be in the child's life they just are no longer IN LOVE with the mother. But even wanting to be in the child's life isn't enough, a lot of people seem to think the guy should stay with the woman regardless of how he feels. So basically men shouldn't be happily?
And I hope I don't come off the wrong way, I just wanted to point out one of the biggest double standards I've seen.
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It is a pretty big double standard, I will agree with you there. I think the reason behind it stems from how absolutely terrifying it is to be pregnant. So to be pregnant, and have someone you (presumably) love abandon you at your most vulnerable... it's just gut wrenching. And heartbreaking. And scary. At that time in your life, you should have all the support possible. So guys who walk away from a woman who is trapped and frightened, and leave her to face pregnancy and labor all alone, are not looked on to kindly. And any woman who tells you that you don't feel scared and trapped during pregnancy is in denial.3