And I hope I don't come off the wrong way, I just wanted to point out one of the biggest double standards I've seen.
Most Helpful Girl
It is a pretty big double standard, I will agree with you there. I think the reason behind it stems from how absolutely terrifying it is to be pregnant. So to be pregnant, and have someone you (presumably) love abandon you at your most vulnerable... it's just gut wrenching. And heartbreaking. And scary. At that time in your life, you should have all the support possible. So guys who walk away from a woman who is trapped and frightened, and leave her to face pregnancy and labor all alone, are not looked on to kindly. And any woman who tells you that you don't feel scared and trapped during pregnancy is in denial.
Most Helpful Guy
A pregnant woman is seen as weak and in need of a man to take care of her. The father is seen as the one that put the woman in that condition in the first place, making it his responsibility to not only take care of the child but also the woman. It isn't right, but that is where the double standard comes from.
These differences in men and women is actually how gender roles and stereotypes get started. If we want to break away from gender roles and double standards we have to stop seeing pregnant women as weaker or less capable than the father of the child. We aren't living in the stone ages. Modern women don't need a man to take care of them anymore.