Dated for four months, three months in found out he was talking to someone else. I considered it cheating, he didn't. We agreed to work through it, but my trust was burned. He dumped me at 1am after a few hours before, we had both said we wanted to keep trying. Apparently he just couldn't take the stress anymore, and I didn't trust him enough. I was very upset but kept my cool and agreed we needed to and if possible remain friendly. Since then, he has sent me snarky txts, when I ask why he's being so mean he says, "I don't know, I'm sorry". I wanted to be friends, but he's confusing me with this back and forth! He dumped me, not the other way around, why is he being cruel and still txting me? He keeps blaming me for everything, he said he was ready for a long term relationship, but I think once he realized certain things would stop (single life stuff) he shut down and now it's all my fault.
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You just need to use no contact for a while, it will give u time to think and him to think about what he is doing and will make him realize that what he is doing and it's not right, time is the best thing because it makes you think of the wrongs and rights and it's good not to contact him for a while, if it works out it does if it doesn't then u will be able to move on to better1