I just broke up with my girlfriend of 1 year and 4 months, She did not respect me or put any effort into our relationship like I did, I was the one putting all the effort in, fixing and resolving our problems like and always trying to make things better, but it did not last long until today, when she deleted all our photos together and "liked" very hurtful quotes on facebook, no matter how much I tried to be the best boyfriend she ever had, she kept on hurting my feelings and breaking my heart, I can't even bring up problems regarding our relationship without her getting angry and wanting to leave and break up, so I finally built up the courage and texted her that I am breaking up with her and deleted/blocked her and everything that I once had with her. Everything I built so hard for had just come crashing down shattering in to a million pieces, Whenever I think about her and her appearance, I would keep on crying and crying non stop, I know you may all think of me as a baby, but at least I have a heart. How can I overcome this feeling?
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I'm sorry to hear about your break up. I was in a relationship just like that about a year and one month ago. I had to put all the effort into my relationship as well and my partner but nothing in return. But you have to find a way to forget her. You don't deserve to be in a relationship like that no one does. You will be in pain for quite sometime but it takes time to get over a break up. I know I felt broken when my ex had broke up with me but I managed to get myself back together and heal somehow. Find something that you like to do, like your favorite hobby or something. If you still have her number and or have added anywhere on any social media account block it, all of it. Cut off all contact and do not speak to her. Stay strong, or at least try to. I understand your pain I went through the same thing, yes it hurts but you will heal. Distract yourself if you need to it helps. Act like she doesn't exist, that helps just as much. It took me about 5 months to get over my ex, I threw away everything he gave, blocked him off of all social media and we have no spoken to this day, it helps a lot.0