So, short story. I'm 23. My first love is 42. I'm still head over heels for him- and it hurts because he wants nothing to do with me. I'm intelligent, independant, funny, and have quite a few friends. But, he would rather focus on how many women he can bag.
I first met him when I was 19- he is the only man that has made my heart race, made me have shortness of breath, and literally made my knees shake.
I know I cannot have him- but when I think of him I still feel the exact way I did so I can onyl assume it's love.
Now my question- how the hell do I fall out of it?
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Well, you always learn from failed relationships what you definitely don't want to see in a new partner. Think of those things. You are at an advantage now to avoid someone like that again! Keep busy and give it time. In time your heart will catch up with your mind.0