So I've ended multiple relationships because I've been given an ultimatum. Most of them have been over small stuff, but I can't imagine being with someone who gives me one, like your setting yourself up to be left. If its that big a deal to you that you threaten leaving I don't want you anymore. This goes for girls and guys, whats your honest opinion on ultimatums?
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If you get an ultimatum, you get out. You give her a chance to retract the ultimatum and make it perfectly clear that you are giving a counter ultimatum: If she's the kind of woman who issues ultimatums, you're the kind of man who leaves such a woman.
If she does not retract. You leave - right then, right there - and you NEVER look back. This is how she learns that issuing ultimatums is NOT acceptable to your romantic partner. Love and a romantic relationship is based on loyalty, trust, compromise, and flexibility. If she doesn't understand that, you need to leave ASAP. It is best for you and best for her. The only person it is not good for is the divorce lawyer that you were eventually going to get.1