Me and my ex dated almost a year. We broke up about two months ago and she already moved on and is flirting with ever guy who talks to her. Me on the other hand an still sad everytime I think of her. She was my first real love and I still do love her. But she's moved on and blocked me on everything she can. I've been trying to move on too. It's just hard for me. How is it so easy for her? Did she never love me?
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No one can really answer these questions. Some people just heal faster than others.
Her cutting you off could mean 2 things - she's trying to get you off her mind completely OR you're already off her mind and she wants nothing to do with her. It's more likely to be the first one. I think we're all guilty of flirting too much after a break up, in the hopes that we can fill the void that's been left behind with many people, even though it never really feels the same. It's the same reason people go for rebound relationships, it's to get over their ex and not feel lonely after a break-up.
It's just that different people have different coping mechanisms.0