My girlfriend of a year plus just broke up with me and it really stings right now as I'm trying to take it in. She told me that her feelings for me had faded and didn't want to drag me on any more in the relationship.
I respect her for telling me how she felt about the relationship and being honest but I got confused when she asked if we could still remain friends.
In a right state of mind I'd probably take a break from all communication and let myself cool off alone but right now my heart still loves her very much. I told her that if we remained friends I'd probably be somewhat bitter towards her because it seemed so sudden but she said she hoped that we could still be friends.
I know at the end of the day she's going to go on with her life and so will I. Knowing how I handle a breakup, I'll probably just have to let go.
This question is more of a sharing to get off my chest but maybe people who experienced something similar could share how they dealt with breakups like these.
All the best guys & girls.
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I honestly do not think its a good idea to be friends with an ex. If I were you I would just move on. I find it to be a waste of time, and it doesn't solve anything. It makes things awkward to, and if you do decide to be friends you will have a difficult time moving on. My best advice would be to cut off all contact with her and don't speak to her again. Go out and see other people and live your life. Keep yourself busy and do not think about her. A lot of them just say that to be nice but there is a chance you two will not remain being friends. It'll take some time but I learned that when you cut off all communication with an ex it helps you heal and it helps you move on, take my advice please.0