My gf used to hit me playfully a lot, which I was okay with. But we got in an argument because she needed money for somethign and I didn't wanna give it to her. Anyway, she punched me twice in the face, then I slapped her. (with the palm) Now she has a tiny and fading bruise and I have a black eye, and she's playing and acting like some abuse victom? I know I didn't do anything wrong, but should I apologies and break up with her?
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That's not okay, you don't punch people in the face for money unless you're a drug dealer or a pimp lol. It really doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. Talk to her about her violence, apologize for hitting her I guess, but emphasize the fact that she should not have hit you first and just because she's a girl does not give her the right to do so. My guess is that she grew up in an environment where this was okay, and unless you want to go through some Dr. Phil shit with her, I'd say that you should just move on. It's one thing to play fight and wrestle with your SO for fun, and then actually hit someone out of anger is an entirely different thing. That's a terrible reason too. Maybe if you had cheated on her, I'd be like "okay, I could see how someone could be that angry as to hit somebody," but you not giving her money? That's just immature and thoroughly fucked up.0