I planned to hang out with my girlfriend. But she blew me off. Later on, she asked me if I was mad. She told me to be honest. I told her I wasn't mad but in reality I was pissed off because it's the 4th time this week she's blown me off. In anger, I broke up with her via text telling her she's unreliable and I never wanted to see her again. She responded saying "Get the balls to talk to me face to face, I asked if you were fine. Grow some balls you pussy!" I told her to go fuck off and never text me again. And that was it. She blew me off 4 times this week. I want a woman who has time for me. Why is she so mad?
Most Helpful Girl
Because you LIED. She flat out asked you if you were upset and you lied. I understand why you're angry... if she truly blew you off. She may have had things to do those 4 times.1
Most Helpful Guy
It could be for a number of reasons. One, you told her you never wanted to see her again, that's pretty harsh considering you broke up with her just based on her unreliable personality. Second, you broke up with her through text, which is a sign that you were too nervous and afraid to break up with her in person, probably because you then would have had to have dealt with whatever emotional backlash she was going to hit you with. Lastly, after she replied to you, you told her to fuck off and never text you again, that is just like adding fuel to the fire.1