Okay so I messaged him After a month of no communication asking if he wants to meet up and he seemed to be so happy and excited. Like, he says "see you soon, xxxx!" and he uses lots of smileys.
we met and ate at a restaurant and he paid for my dinner. I offered to pay but he insisted. I mean, when we were togteher, he never even treated me out for anything so why now? Which was really nice of him though :)
and then after dinner we got to go to this open space with steps and sat next to each other. I noticed that he kept on moving closer to me subtly to the point that our arms and part of hips/thigh touch together. I Didn't move to see if he will, but he didn't
and now I just messaged him saying thanks for the dinner and sorry for the hassle (he lives far from the city center, like an hour travel time) and he replied saying "it's my pleasure :) it's not a hassle, really!"
Why is he acting like this if he broke up with me? Do you think he still likes me? Well, would you act the same way to your ex if you're in his position?
okay, a quick background, he's studying abroad and won't be back until 3 years so he broke up with me. He says he doesn't wnat to be in an LDR and insists I entertain other guys because he believes there are lots who are waiting in line for me. I told him I was okay to wiat for him and there are no other guys but he really doesn't want. I asked if it was because of me and at first he said no, then yes, then later changed it again to no and insists that he just wants to be alone at the moment. Focus on his studies and all. But at the same time, he says I have no chance, we won't end up together even when he gets back home because he says he's scared that if he says yes, I'll stop entertaining guys and just wait for him
Is he really just being a nice person or... is there something else?