So my bf and I have been on a break for two days because I "bitch" too much (which honestly I do but it's because I care and I'm trying to guide him). When he broke up with me, I found out he wanted to but didn't want to hurt my feelings. So we broke it off. He said if he misses me within a week, he'll come back. who the fuck says that.-.
I've been heartbroken and depressed for the past 2 months for other reasons, but this just added more sadness. I haven't been eating properly, I would cut myself and I would do nothing. I feel no motivation.
It's hard to give him space since I miss him so much and care for him. Whenever I'd text or call he'd get mad but whenever he calls he's nice. Like wtf.
Today I found out he has feelings for another girl and she also likes him. He doesn't know who to pick. I feel very hurt and lead on...
So what should I do? I want him back so how can I get him back? Should I ignore him? but at the same time I'm scared he'll pick her over me. Advice ladies and guys?
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... I've been heartbroken and depressed for the past 2 months for other reasons...
Now that he has Also Added This to his fire, skyysarahtops, this is telling me, should be telling you as well, the writing on the wall and all with 'I found out he has feelings for another girl,' is he will Use in his back pocket during this so--called 'On a break,' and if it doesn't work out, he will be back for the Missing the Kissing old lame duck excuse.
You both have been having problems, Trouble in Denmark, you should say, but now that he has picked up and gotten himself another chick, this schmo from Idaho, he is leading you on, stringing you and your broken heart on, with 'He doesn't know who to pick' and with this... is a fickle pickle who really doesn't belong in Any relationship.
Forget him, he is a loser here, dear. You can never trust him again and even if you would go back with him tomorrow, it probably would be the same sorrow, the same redrick, and even More... I would cut myself and I would do nothing.
Move on, you will only end up burned again.
Good luck and blessings. xxoo0