While I aim to be a peaceful, serene woman who spreads good vibes and attacks ideas, not people: I have a horrible effing temper and you do not want to be on the recieivng end of it. Thanks to some verbal/mental abuse followed by boxing training plus a innate sense of competition since I was a child... I can become she-Hulk. Not my proudest trait. Definitely a trait I need to fix before I become a mother or get married.
Anyhow, my newly ex (just broke up last week) and I are meeting up to discuss the full extent of his shady sh*t.
I found some things on Facebook that I'd like to address and I deserve to know the truth. I have EARNED that totality from him. I honestly feel like I just might black out and punch him in the face really hard. I know he's strong so he will probably try to pin me down and I will just knee him in the balls and kick wherever I can while I scratch him all over. I have been loyal to this man and given him my heart for two years and if I find out what I think I'm going to find out, I just may snap and give him an ass whooping. This is a horrible idea. What can I do to control my anger? Please talk me down. I don't want to do this but I feel rage creeping up into me already.
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Bring somebody else along. Like a friend or something. That way they can hold you back if you do snap. Or you could do it in a public place. So all the people around that could see you may keep you from making a scene. You could also do something very happy before this to get you in a mind state of "it doesn't matter what happens because today was already a good day". Or drink a glass of chocolate milk. That always makes me happier. And for the record, I think it's awesome that you could beat up the average guy. Many girls can't and i think it's cool that you can. More inventive for a guy to make you happy1