Anyhow, my newly ex (just broke up last week) and I are meeting up to discuss the full extent of his shady sh*t.
I found some things on Facebook that I'd like to address and I deserve to know the truth. I have EARNED that totality from him. I honestly feel like I just might black out and punch him in the face really hard. I know he's strong so he will probably try to pin me down and I will just knee him in the balls and kick wherever I can while I scratch him all over. I have been loyal to this man and given him my heart for two years and if I find out what I think I'm going to find out, I just may snap and give him an ass whooping. This is a horrible idea. What can I do to control my anger? Please talk me down. I don't want to do this but I feel rage creeping up into me already.
Most Helpful Guy
Bring somebody else along. Like a friend or something. That way they can hold you back if you do snap. Or you could do it in a public place. So all the people around that could see you may keep you from making a scene. You could also do something very happy before this to get you in a mind state of "it doesn't matter what happens because today was already a good day". Or drink a glass of chocolate milk. That always makes me happier. And for the record, I think it's awesome that you could beat up the average guy. Many girls can't and i think it's cool that you can. More inventive for a guy to make you happy1
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe it's not the right time for you to meet up with him then. Perhaps it would be better to give it a bit more time and calm yourself down a little. Aside from the fact that you really shouldn't get violent since that would solve nothing, you could end up in jail. Or one or both of you could get seriously hurt. That really isn't worth it. I understand you want to hear the truth from him, I really do. But I suggest you postpone the meeting until your wounds have healed a little and you don't go into this meeting thinking you will beat the living shit out of him. Also, maybe take some valium or something before you actually meet him ;-)1