The real reason why I want to break up is because he is so pushy to do things i dont want like sex. And i think our relationship is all bound of sex. He is a sweet and suprising guy which really make me miss him. But I am supposed to do what my gut has been telling me, it is to end our relationship in good matter.
But before that I want to consider his side, he has dyslexia, genetic sex inheritence from his father, loneliness and he needs self confidence which I was trying to help him.
But while I am helping him, I am trying to hurt myself knowing that this so over. I am girl and I need respect. Girls would understand my situation. 😢
Whenever I tried conversation unsexual stuffs, he is trying to leave or get bored. And then talk sex again. I love him so much... that I want to care for him but I think he forgot mine. 😟
Guys pls help me how I would break him politely...
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As always when breaking up: tell him the real reasons. There's no point in making up things, just tell him exactly what you told us here.
You keep saying you need to find the strength to break up with him since you're still in love with him. I don't know how to help you with that. But it does seem like you really want out of this relationship because, as you say, it is dragging you down. That should give you some strength, no? It cannot continue like this, and breaking up is never easy. So I'm afraid you'll just have to go through with it. It will hurt, but you know that in the long-run it's for the best. Maybe it would help you to write a list with all the pros and cons and then you'd find some strength in seeing these things written down and once again realising that it cannot carry on.0