- You're over thinking it.
Most Helpful Guy
Lol, if they aren't attracted to me, then why are they with me? Most likely out of convenience, not because they value me as a person. Disappointing.0
Most Helpful Girl
Um okay i don't know if it's just the way you explained it or what, but that sounds like a really messed up rrelationship to me.. Your s/o should be attracted to you and not be with you because they pity you.. people show their affection in different ways, personally I'm not really into PDA but my boyfriend is like a magnet, we just have different styles, but what yyou're describing sounds like a bad situation and i definitely think you should get out. You can do way better than someone whose main reason for getting with you was because they felt sorry for you, you deserve so much more than that! Good luck girl1