I am still jealous of my ex H going to masssage parlors and getting rubbed and washed by middle aged whores. The only time i can stop thinking about is when i do what those women did to my EX to other men. But other then my jealousy comes back. This happened many months ago and i just couldn't get over the fact why he would want old women to wash and rub his ass and genitals. It had a big impact on me, since i have never done such things to him back them but they have been doign so VERY often. So i got very angry and raided all of their places and i still continue doing so. We are divorced now but i still don't get it...
Why can't I stop being jealous?
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i think it's normal to feel the way you do. I'm pretty sure everyone would be upset, confused, hurt and angry if something like this happened to them. When I found out that my ex went to whores before he met me, it took me some time to get over it. Note: he did that BEFORE we even met and yet it bothered me. So I can imagine how terrible it must be when your husband does it to you.
Like I say, it will take time. You might never get it, but with time it will bother you less and less. I could tell you that rationally you shouldn't be jealous (and you really shouldn't, you should feel sorry for both the whores and your husband), but I know that when it's about jealousy/anger, our rationality doesn't work.0
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