Basically, I was seeing a guy for a while and it ended badly. But I can't stop thinking about what could have been and it's seriously bugging me. I've been trying to focus on why things ended the way they did and find some reason for me to believe it NEVER would have worked, even if those things didn't happen, but it's not working. This happened about 6 months ago by the way.
Most Helpful Guy
Time, eventually you'll forget him, and meet someone new1
Most Helpful Girl
I know 6 months feels like a long time but likely you're just not done healing yet. That can sometimes take years unfortunately. Also it's probably going to happen from time to time that you'll think about what could have been. The thing is it just becomes more tolerable with time. Have you been seeing other guys in the mean time? Or was he your most recent love interest? I've found that meeting a new guy and falling in love with someone else always replaces the love I used to have for some other guy.1