Hi guys! I've been asking myself this ever since yesterday! Why would a guy (the dumper) be still angry/bitter towards his ex (the dumpee) after he broke up with her 8 months ago? She didn't cheat on him or anything! We were on a on/off relationship for 5 years and 8 months ago he left me via voicemail without explaining himself. I basically moved on but i want a complete closure so i asked him what went wrongand he gave me an angry/bitter answer and i just don't get why? He had a "serious relationship" 1 month post-breakup with a girl who's 8 years younger than him (26-18) , then he left her 4-5months after but still in contact with her and he's already in a new relationship. I forgave him and myself for everything that happened between us and i just want to learn and grow, no bitterness or awkwardness u know!!! So can somebody explain me his behaviour PLZ?
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He's a confused, insecure and immature boy who doesn't know himself well enough to understand what he wants in a romantic partner.
His anger and bitterness had nothing to do with you, but everything to do with his inability to stop hating himself long enough to take a break from dating so he can learn more about himself and why he's such a confused asshole.
You waited long enough to ask him a legitimate question, and he wasn't willing to be mature enough to discuss things with you in the manner you presented your question. He's also a serial dater, which tells me he has no idea what commitment is and is simply afraid to be alone. Again, you have to like yourself before you can actually like someone else beyond just initial physical attraction and sex.
Maybe he'll learn, but it's good you've moved on.1
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