one phoning. (she broke up with me) I really would like it if she called me, and did the talking, but I'm afraid she's done reaching out?
Most Helpful Girl
If she was trying to contact you that many times, chances are she is regretting her decision. If you really do care about her and want to be with her again, I think you should reach out and try to meet up (somewhere public) to have a talk. Be honest about how you feel and let her know you found it unfair for her to break up with you and then keep in contact like she did. Let her say what she needs to say as well. Maybe try to understand her reason for breaking up with you. If she wants to be with you still and vice versa, then you can move forward slowly. You will need to take time to build the relationship back up after a break like this. Don't just jump right back into it. Let her know that if she wants to work it out, it will take time and effort. Honesty goes a long way in situations like this.
Most Helpful Guy
The best answer to your question is can you handle beginning to talk with her at this point with out still feeling the loss? If you can't then it's pretty clear that time has not yet healed you of the loss. Do you think that opening up communication with her will fill the void? If so then that's what you should do. But it you fear it will make you feel worse , then maybe now just isn't the time to go there.