i recently got out of a relationship and the guy was also my bestfriend, who i genuiely loved, we used to say i love you to eachother and he would wake me up with heartwarming texts, he was amazing in my eyes, everything i ever dreamt about anyways long story short, after a year and a half of dating we started drifting away and i got sad so i asked about it and he said he liked his ex, at first i was shocked but then i realised ofcourse he would still like her cuz she's really pretty, but that didn't hurt the most, the pain that killed me was him not being able to tell me himself considering we've been bestfriends for years now and he knew everything about me. We then broke up and haven't talked since, I don't know why but he doesn't try to contact me.. and i dont wanna text him first because i think seeing his name or out past convos gonna break me, i really wished he would at least say hi.
So recently he's being doing things with her (his ex now girlfriend) and ofcourse im jealous because that was me at one stage and i need help, i think about him everyday because some stupid little thing reminds me of him, is there any tips or tricks to get my mind off him?
p. s - i got a haircut cuz i read somewhere that getting a new look is a new start and thats kinda working but his still there and i need him gone, and I don't know if this helps but the breakup was about a month ago.
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First get rid of everything that could make you think about him
Second start hanging out with your friends (I mean kinda keep yourself always busy and having fun with your family and friends)
Third pick up old hobbies (like piano, painting, singing, acting etc .)
Fourth put yourself out there, it's really hard to get over someone when there happy and your single.
And lucky number five: go work out and eat healthy. It may seem off topic but it's amazing for your body. And the happier you feel, the happier you appear, and the more likely you are to get hit on by that brad Pitt lookin' guy.
But try not to do anything to drastic with your hair or tattoos. When I see that happen to girls who just got broke up with, well I personally thought they went of the deep end. (if it's in a short period of time anyway.) that's just my opinion
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