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This is most likely a by-product of his insecurities. He wanted to be the one to leave you - the fact that he could leave a pretty girl because she disrespected him probably made him feel like he was a 'somebody'. But you accepted it, as you should, which completely undermined his power play and has now turned what was initially something that would have made him feel good about himself into something that is now making him feel bad about himself. His backtracking and attempts to win you back into his life push him further and further into a cycle of rejection, and he will want you to come crawling back to him to end that cycle and make him feel dominant again. It is a mind game, and he tried to bluff and lost.
The thing is, you have been handling this the correct way. You need to NOT be friends on facebook, you need to not communicate. You need to cut each other off and get on with things. He is probably continuing to try because the door seems open a crack. You tell him to stop, yet you seem to respond when he does something. That will just encourage him to keep trying so he can 'win'.
I would suggest cutting ties completely, blocking him if you have to, not responding if something gets through, and just moving on. He tried to be the dominant one, had it flipped around on him, and now he's scrambling to put himself back on top. And he will keep trying until he succeeds, or until he realizes he's blocked and you are not playing his little mind games any more.0
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