First off pardon the typos I'm a bit on the drunk side.
So about a year and a half ago I met this awesome guy off xbl. Its crazy but we hit it off in the game so started chatting by emaik. It started off innocent just as friend ship. But the more we got to know each other, the better it felt. We exchanged numbers and started talking. Little 30 minute conversationd turned into hours on the phobe.
He lives 3,000 miles away and I'm engaged to a guy. I know this isbreally wrong but I'm so confused. I've spent the last four years with the giy I'm engaged too. But for the last year this other guy has been right by myside..
He's asked how my appointments were, how I'm feeling says all these cute things and we just connected. Thebwhole idea of a soul mate was hard to understand until I and this guy started talking. We talk aboutbso much its hard to believe we spent 6 hours on the phone.
I know I can't love two guys atbonce and someone is going to get their heart broke. This guy I'm talking to knows I'm engaged. But my fiancé has nonclue. I don't know whatbto do. My fiance makes me feel lonely as he isn't affectionate at all. I get three kisses a day a and that's it. He won't hold me close or cuddle in bed. And sex is just for him I don't get nothing out of it.
This other guy makes me feel important and like abwoman. When I ralk to him I just want to do my hair put on something nice and go out.
He was the first to say I love you. As my fiancé didn't say it first. I did.
The first time I met my fiance I broke my own rule and slept with him. Even tho webwere talking for months before meeting it didn't feel right. I've never met this out guy. Just phone calks texts and Skype. What do I do? Keep in mind he lives 3000 miles away and I have a 5 year old here in the statebi live in.
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The grass is always greener on the other side. All new people you meet are awesome at a distance, but when you get closer to them you realize that they have issues. Then you have to decide if you can live with those issues or not.
If you're really that miserable with your fiance and can't put up with his personality, then don't get married to him.
If you like this guy on the other side of the world or whatever, plan to go meet him some time in the future, but don't expect him to be as awesome as you think. You probably thought your fiance was going to be awesome at one point too didn't you?0