It's been a fair while since I broke up with my ex. I really did love him. He ended things. Long story and not really relevant to the question. Some weeks I'm doing really well. Other weeks I'm back thinking of him and doe eyed. It feels like its cyclical. Like I have done a lot to get over it and overall moved on a lo. Some weeks it feels like I'm pining again. I don't see a difference in my circumstances just feels like its cyclical. I'm wondering if it's linked to hormones. Same ways some weeks it's easier to diet than others. Anyone else noticed this?
For the girls: Hormones linked to coping with breakup?
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No, certainly not, and hell the f*ck no you cannot so don't even try.
Especially if he broke up with you meaning that if you had it your way, you probably still would have been with him, loving him, showing him affection, and sharing every part of yourself with him. Disaster! It will never work. You will always have hope that you can become something greater. And who the hell wants to accept an emotional, mental, and spiritual demotion in the life of someone they used to love? NO ONE.
You don't seem to be over him and I'm wiling to bet that you trying to be "friends" would just be an excuse to have him however you can get him.0
I find that it takes time and concentration to loosen the cyclical aspect. Less about hormones and more about important times from when you were together at set you to remembering.2
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