Okay so I decided to stay friends with him (on his request). For a month we've been equally texting to each other. Lately it's mostly me initiating, so I stopped now (it's been a week) but he stopped too. Is he waiting for me to initiate? We haven't talked about our relationship or feelings for a month, just casual talks, but he knows I'm not over him. Why would a dumper want friendship but not initiate it?