Long story short, we dated for two months during high school. He wasn't a very good boyfriend, he spent more time playing video games than spend time with me. He's the one who ended the relationship and decided to go after some girl he played Halo with online. I got over him and since then have been with a wonderful guy for the past two and a half years.
Shortly after my ex broke up with his girlfriend he messaged me saying he was sorry, he made a terrible mistake, he loves me, etc. I'm too nice for my own good and I responded saying it was nice of him to say that but I've since met the man I'm planning on spending the rest of my life with and pretty much, he's a day late and a dollar short.
He understood and said he was happy I'm happy but he kept saying I'm the one for him and he would wait for me. No matter how much I told him not to, to find another girl and be happy, he
wouldn't listen. Eventually it got to the point he wrote a status on Facebook that I knew was about me and I blocked him because I couldn't take his stubbornness anymore.
Since then I think he got a new girlfriend for a while thankfully, but I was going through my emails today and saw he found my second Facebook account I made while my first was hacked a while back and not only did he send me a friend request but he messaged me too.
I'm too nice for my own good and I thought about unblocking him and making it clear (again) that I'm happy now and I would only want to be friends with him but at the same time I don't know if he's gonna bombard me with his "I'll wait"'s and everything else which I don't want to deal with again.
thoughts anyone? Thank you!
- Ignore him.Vote A
- Talk to him.Vote B
Most Helpful Girl
Sounds like he's trying to get back with you after treating you like crap. No thanks. It also sounds like he's trying to manipulate your feelings by telling you sweet-nothings.
I doubt he's changed. The one thing that sticks out in my mind is that he left you for another girl.