He cheated on me, now he kissed me and showed up at my job to see me and my daughter. Does he want me back?
What Guys Said 1
I think cheating on you with your best friend is a good reason to never speak to someone ever again, let alone getting back together with them.
Don't think you can't find better, because you can. If you get with him, you will always be reminded of what happened, whereas if you find someone new, you have no reason to distrust them as they haven't previously caused any betrayal or hurt.
I realise this is difficult as your daughter is involved too, but you have to think what is best for both of you, like you, if this man cheats on you again, your daughter will have to face him disappearing from your life once again. Even if he doesn't and his prior betrayal is too much for you to cope with, your daughter will also suffer from any trust or relationship troubles dug up because of his prior betrayal.
So really, although it seems good for your daughter now, it probably isn't healthy for either of you in the long term.1
What Girls Said 1
The main fault lies with you best friend (hopefully EX) and perhaps even a bit yourself IF you shared with her how great HE was. We all get tempted, we all make mistakes, we all regret them and wish like hell for a 2nd chance.
Considering your circumstances and all you've written, this past fall in the mud is the ONLY flaw in a Disney cloud-nine experience for your futures. I see real love here on so many levels, if you'll just go slow and find evidence that supports your trust in him, esp. with female temptations. NEVER EVER allow that cheating "best" friend to come onto your property, near him/family, not even facebook/email/nothing.
Once back together, NEVER make others covet your guy beyond polite complements, never tempt them... to tempt him!0
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