We still communicate regularly and the consensus is that I still really love her and that she loves me and wants to be with me but not the way its been. I have also found out that she's had sex with another guy 3 times since we've been broken up and that she felt really guilty about it and she did it out of spite and for her own needs to feel something.. It was sex and nothing more, there isn't a future with that guy. This has caused me a lot of pain because I didn't want that for myself because I wanted my family back. Some of my friends say not to bother with her now because she did that but I'm willing to get past it because I love her.
She says she wants me to fight for her and for the relationship because that's all she ever did when we were together and now it's my turn and I'm having a hard time understanding this.. If she wants to be with me and I want to be with her, couldn't we just work things out together?
She had this insane idea about playing family for pockets of time to work things out with the end goal of being together but at the same time have her freedom to do what she wants in between, and in good conscience I refused. She later took it back and said she fucked up with that idea and said there was no half in on the table for us and only all in or not in. With that said she is still waiting for me to fight for her and won't entertain the idea of working things out together.
I'm so confused, I don't know what to do..