I have tried to move on but I really can't. I have secretly met another guy but quickly blew it because I couldn't stop thinking about my ex boyfriend. Me and my ex never broke up with each other but because of a conflict what we had stopped and since then we've been texting each other sometimes and met up once. He won't open up unless I tell him to and I can't do it either, it has caused me a lot of pain. Last time I talk to him was four months ago when we were starting to discuss our problems but in the heat of it I got so pissed over his hiding behind humour and making fun of it instead that I yelled at him. I don't know what happened but we stopped talking and after a while he began to chase me but I was so confused about everything especially his feelings towards me. He has done this and that to make me jealous and now it's been nothing. I want to contact him so badly and ask if we can sort things out but I'm terrified. Maybe he wants to move on and then I show up trying to back together after all the hurt we caused each just because we haven't communicated, I want to communicate. I have never liked someone as much as I like him it's crazy. What should I do?
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Just tell him you want to get back together and see what he says. The lack of communication will cause problems. It's your choice. Make sure if he doesn't want to get back together, you get closure otherwise you will mess up future relationships.1