I have tried to move on but I really can't. I have secretly met another guy but quickly blew it because I couldn't stop thinking about my ex boyfriend. Me and my ex never broke up with each other but because of a conflict what we had stopped and since then we've been texting each other sometimes and met up once. He won't open up unless I tell him to and I can't do it either, it has caused me a lot of pain. Last time I talk to him was four months ago when we were starting to discuss our problems but in the heat of it I got so pissed over his hiding behind humour and making fun of it instead that I yelled at him. I don't know what happened but we stopped talking and after a while he began to chase me but I was so confused about everything especially his feelings towards me. He has done this and that to make me jealous and now it's been nothing. I want to contact him so badly and ask if we can sort things out but I'm terrified. Maybe he wants to move on and then I show up trying to back together after all the hurt we caused each just because we haven't communicated, I want to communicate. I have never liked someone as much as I like him it's crazy. What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
see Im in the same situation with my girlfriend OMG. Im her first and we'
ve been together for 2 years but we broke up 4 months ago and Tomorrow I want to talk with her. so this is like the same situation like urs. can't believe it. and U should go talk with him tell him how u feel and everything but be strong even if it hurts cuz Im in the same situation believe me so we have to keep on. and lets get back our partners hahaha. but can u tell me what to do cuz I heard she thinks over and over that she's not perfect for me , but still I know she is , I just need the words to get her back any advice?0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
If you guys do talk again, you will probably have to spend a few days talking normally because 4 months of no contact can change a lot. Feelings change in days, and 4 months is even longer. If you want to talk to him, message him, but don't jump straight to getting things fixed. Talk normally and then get around to it depending on the mood of the conversation. You'll be able to tell if there's any chance of reconciliation. And don't expect much from this.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE