She snuck around for ever with me. We tried to make it work with her parents.. no chance. We were going to finally move out together and she backed out last minute. She would of been disowned by her mom and had no college ride anymore. I said I would help her as best I can but it would be hard. Offered her mutiple times a way out and she declined. Things got messy at the end said the distance drove us apart. She can't get over me unless she ends contact with me. Said hopefully we can try this again when we have our shit together. I don't know what to think. her love for me was crazy. I sort of took her for granted and neglected her while we were trying to dk this because of her passive aggressiveness. She acted like everything was fine then wouls pout and say she feels worthless and used. said I don't love her or care and was just using her. I was so busy with my military training I couldn't be there the way I wanted tko. She said she would have nothing to go back to if we didn't work out. Broke my heart. Could you understand? She would get accused and cussed out by her mom almost everytime she would go out. The last time I saw her before she ended things she was hysterically cryingsaying I want you but I don't want to lose my mom too. I offered her to end it again and said yu don't have to do this. She declined but broke up a week later.
- I can understand she didn't trust you to be thereVote A
- No she didn't love you.Vote B
Most Helpful Girl
Yes, I can completely understand why she made that decision and I think choosing the opposite would have been a massive disservice to herself, considering the type of boyfriend you were.
You treated her like dirt, disrupted her peace of mind, and failed to add onto her happiness. Her parents on the other hand will ALWAYS be there for her. They will always amount to a positive part of her life. Why would she choose an asshole who mistreated her heart over them and her education?
I'm wiling to bet her parents stepped in and forced her to make a choice because they felt you were horrible for their child and distracting her with your bullsh*t0
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Most Helpful Guy
She was too young for a commitment, and it was only reasonable to follow her parents in the situation.
It was for the best.. in a while you'll both realize that.0