I have never been in a relationship, but this whole scanerio scares me to death :( I feel so terrified of ever being into a relationship. I don't think that I can take a chance with my heart. The risk is just not worth it. Why do people hurt others when they are not sure about themselves?
Most Helpful Guy
It's because their needs aren't being met. Simple. If a guy has dated a girl for a while and she's not willing to have sex yet while the guy has a powerful sex-drive, then of course he's going to look for someone to fool around with.
You just have to accept that not everyone is going to be for you and you should just let go of expectations when it comes to relationships.
Most Helpful Girl
It's sad how people hearts get broken, but you cannot live your life being afraid. Someday, you may accidentally break someone's heart, it's not always going to be your heart.
Yes, at the moment it hurts... But this is how we learn while we are here... These heart breaks prepare us for the one ( your true love).