So me and my ex boyfriend had a break up. What had happened in short was that he said I love you and i got too intense which scared him (tried to commit suicide when he broke off). We stopped speaking with each other for a month and started talking again. My friend in the meanwhile made a fake account and made him realize his mistake.. He was very subtly flirting with her (fake account girl) and told her he still likes me. He apologized to me after I apologized. We had made out in one movies when we seeing each other and he told me after our breakup that whatever movie he watches in a theater he goes back to the same movie in which we made out. He is not the type of guy who would want to friends with benefits. I had asked him earlier if he would be comfortable being friends with benefits NO, he said not with you. He has also started sending me sweet nothing texts. Anyways we have gone for two movies. Our first meeting was very awkward according to me.. He couldn't look me in the eyes. He wore the same shirt that he wore on our very first date. Our second movie I put my head on his shoulder and I didn't know if he was okay with that.. So I made an excuse and said ohh my neck hurt. He pulled the armrest back and said sit properly then.. I got scared as I got confused what was he trying to say. So I asked him if it was okay if rested my head on his shoulder he said yes yes!!! Should I take it as a sign or is
What does it mean if your ex pulls back the armrest and allows to rest head on his shoulder?
What Guys Said 1
yeah I think he might still have some feelings for you, just let things play out as they are, rest your head on his shoulder hold his hand then maybe try and go for the kiss if you want to and it feels like he wants to, and if you want to1
What Girls Said 1
Homie, that is way too intense. I would not take that as a sign. Men tend to speak their minds. He's already clearly said no and not with you. Also, if he's anything like my bf, he does not like to see tears or he will be "nice" and not just cut you off. To be fair, it is a terrible thing to use your life to force someone to you. It was incredibly disrespectful to have come up with a ridiculous fake account. Where's the honesty and trust suppose to be? That is not love. That is not a successful relationship. You are seeing what you want to see, reading signs that you want to be there.
You need to love yourself, as hard as that may be. Find who you are as a woman dear and embrace it without deceitful tricks. A man that truly loves you looks you in the eye and lets you know his feelings about you. You would know, and the fact that you don't and are asking our opinion unfortunately means that no, it's not working out.0
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