Like for example, with my dad. He revealed that I was pregnant to him, before I was ready, out of spite and that I was trying to fight him. Yes I know that was very stupid and reckless of me, but I was so pissed at him. for putting me in some unnecessary drama and him getting in my face, always saying that he was going to beat the crap out of me. I mostly got back in his face but I did slap him. I. feel like he shouldn't complain about that because as many times he has put bruise all over me. The only reason I think of it as abuse , at the time, because he disguised it as "play fighting".
I don't understand why he try and tell on me, try to make me look bad to my dad, partially lie and not tell the whole Truth. And Im not going to tell my dad EVERYTHING.
I figured most people would try to avoid contact eith their exes family and friends, depending on their previous relationship with them. But my ex is trying to keep a relationship with them.