So i'm a single mom of a disabled child we have been away from home staying at the hospital for the last 6 months, my sons father has been home the intire time because he had no transportation back and forth plus work and bills. We have beeen fighting a lot over the last year and this isn't our first break up but it is the only break up while having children. Well needless to say 3 weeks ago we had a mutual break up we said our peaceful goodbyes in person and within 3 days he's with someone else and has probably been with her everyday since then. Well last week he got told im doing ok that im moving on and potentially seeing other men (not yet). And man did he get jealous, threatening to be up a guy who doesn't exsist yet, trying to say i love you i miss you we just need space, begging me not to sleep with anyone. Well after that conversation he blew me off for 3 days for her. I return home with our son yesterday. He has no knowledge of his sons care and my son needs a trained individual to watch him 24/7 so his dad has to visit with me. Both yesterday and today he has been very touchy very friendly got jealous over me txting a friend and not telling him who he won't tell me if he's dating anyone he's trying to kiss me making it known we aren't together he gave me a ride to the store and had this girls belongings in my car. He had admitted he's not going to keep anyone around long he has basically made this girl undesirable bye the things he has said about her to me. And today he said to me I love you nobody can replace you i can't be friends with you just yet and we can't be together i don't want to hear about what your doing and you don't want to here about me but once my lease is up a year from the 28th i want us to be a happy couple again and move from their to back home to you... I don't even know what to say,... all this happend in 2 days, i don't even know how to be in the same room and basically yeah he may love me and wants to touch me i want to move on
How to deal with my sons father?
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This sounds so similar to my ex it is funny, we dated 9 years and share a child. He started seeing a girl 2 weeks after we broke up, he has also said he would beat up any new guy which i was seeing one but for a very short time.
it didn't last long and he wants me back he's always begging me not to sleep with anyone lol. I have not, but i really don't intend on taking him back ever. He comes to get our boy on the weekend and tries to touch and kiss me, and i always have to tell him no. I know this doesn't help much but i kinda know how you feel, I think i just need to wait till my ex finds another girl but its going to take a long time. Sorry you kid is disabled that must make it hard.0
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