ok so i told him a while ago i do fantasize about people but then today he was asking me about it and i said i hardly ever do and all this kind of stuff then he got cut and said he doesn't want to be with me because i like to prev and fanstize but come on every one does that? and then he goes on about he doesn't think about other girls and all that and now im really angry and hurt?
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Everyone fantasizes about other people. A lot of people misunderstand what monogamy is.
Monogamy is a choice to be with one person. Biologically, we are not meant to be monogamous, we're meant to procreate. Being monogamous is a social and moral choice. It doesn't eliminate our desire to want to have sex with other people, we just override it and choose to stay with one person.
Let him go, he doesn't sound worth the time if that's how he's gonna be.0