Most Helpful Guy
amazing how this works, huh? Ironically my ex girlfriend broke up with me because I wasn't giving her enough sexual attention (biggest reason among many other little issues). Truth is I loved her a lot, but I subconsciously struggled to stay physically attracted to her. I didn't blame her for dumping me. However I missed her companionship immensely. After we split up I did borderline stalk her a bit (looked at her FB constantly and went to places she frequented hoping to run into her). Not proud of that.
Anyway this girl said "I love you" multiple times and I believed she meant it. When were dating she was extremely into me but she dumped me like a bad apple rather abruptly. I know the feeling of having someone zig zag on you. However remember this... what was the reason you didn't want to have sex with him? Was it hormones? Not in the mood? Or was it a deeper reason that you don't want to admit to yourself... such as you not that physically attracted to him? If that's the case he might have deduced you weren't that into him. He'll only take so much rejection and move on. That's what my ex did.
I realize sex isn't everything but there's no denying it is a BIG piece of the puzzle.
Most Helpful Girl
I think he might've been extremely turned off by your actions..