So there's a guy and he's liked me for a while. He texts me goodnight and random things to talk about. He even wants to come to my house and meet my parents.
"Voluntarily his idea"
He's not ugly but there's something that bothers me something I never expected.
He's from Ghana, I'm black too and I've always adored my African friends. I even joke and say I'd marry one because I have so many attractive African guy friends. And that I would learn to cook all his favorite native foods, dress up etcz..
But it turns out I don't think I'm not attracted to his particular ethnic group and can't see myself merging with that his culture
I seriously couldn't imagine kids together. "Yeah I've thought it out that far"
What do I do?
He hasn't done anything wrong thus far, so I couldn't think of any reason to say lets just be friends or I'm not interested without giving a generic reason, which he will most likely know isn't genuine.
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Don't feel terrible, You don't need a good reason, you just need a reason.
If you want to be genuine, you have to tell the truth, there no way around it.
The classic is just "I only see you as a friend" which could still be true. Or maybe "I just can't see myself together with you, we are not compatible" which is definitely true.