My divorce will be final soon. I have accepted and moving on. Not saying it is not hard becuase it is a life changing thing. I just want to be sure it is the right thing for both of us. We have had to stay in contact some due to the proceedings and selling the house. The other night he called (when normally he would text) to ask a question about the house and we talked for 30mins. I have been worried about some comments that are negative about himself and he has been drinking a lot and not sleeping well.
He still keeps my picture in his wallet and says he tries not to think about the good times we had.
Are we making the right choice to go our separate ways?
I asked if he wanted to work it out and he said no, but his actions are saying something different. I do not know what to do as I feel this going to be a mistake that we cannot come back from.
I cannot read minds and guys deal with things differntly.
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Been through it all, and you'll question yourself for a coupla years yet...
You're getting divorced for a reason, obviously you didn't work as a couple...
Write down why you seperated, stick it on the fridge and look at it to remind yourself why... just because he's drinking, not sleeping etc don't let that guilt you into going where you're not happy...
Stand strong and you'll get through it
Hope this helps0