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When my ex recently dumped me I was in shock and feeling like crap. I didn't hide it, everyone around me understood what I was going. I was barely eating, was one second crying, another one hating him, then laughing... the waves just kept coming no matter what I do. He would be on my mind constantly. I stayed friends with him, though. And I'm glad I did because the obvious difference between how he treated me in a relationship and how he treated me when not in a relationship made me get over him, fall out of love with him. I ended the friendship and I felt relieved. Started going to the gym and working on myself and on my job projects. Can't say I totally got over him, but I'm on a good road, at least he is not the first thing I think about when I wake up anymore. Only when I go to sleep. :D But that will go away as well eventually. Nothing lasts forever and your pain won't either.