My ex broke up with me 3 months ago. We've been together for 5 years but the relationship in its entirety has been on and off and very rocky. The last time he broke up with me (which was the most) recent has really hurt me. I am getting over the break up, but at least once or twice a wk I find myself very depressed. I have improved because I was having such a hard time initially, I was missing work.
My ex was my first and is the father of my child. Our relationship has had a pattern of him breaking up with me followed by no contact and then he proposes to be "friends" (not FWB) and I end up back in a relationship. About 2 months ago he proposed that we remain friends and I told him no.
My ex is not a good person and each time he has broken up with me I have found him on sex websites immediately afterwards and already trying to find someone new. This is the final time I am going through that anymore, but I'd like to know what do I need to do when I find myself depressed and longing for him.
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That definitely makes it tough when he's the farther of your child, too many guys are leaving women as single mothers these days... it's not right... i know a perfectly nice woman from someone i watch on YouTube, we used to hang out a long in online chats, anyway she has a heart full of love yet she still got cheated on by a dude who made a son with her... but thankfully i'm seeing her doing good and one of her long time guy mates stood up and is making her and her son happy than ever :) so i think you can find someone better too who won't get your pregnant then get cold feet.
Guys seem to many commitment issues these days, so i would cut contact from this poisenious person because he is poisen to you and every person that meets him (especially every girl he "dates"), he's just a loser so keep yourself busy, take this as an oppurtinity to have some YOU time for a while, enjoy being single for a little bit so you can re-gain control of your life again, don't ever let a guy turn your life up-side-down because it's not worth it... your story still goes on with or without them.0
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