Assuming that she was gorgeous, you loved her deeply, wanted to marry her and that you two had insane chemistry and mind blowing sex... but she broke your heart and you moved on pretty quickly with a girl less than moderate who you are now in a long term relationship.
So you run into your ex after months of not seeing her or communicating with her. You've been apart for over a year. You see her and she looks hotter than ever and is dressed to kill. You are a pretty upstanding guy who respects women and commitment (I. e new gf). Sooo... what is your first thought or impulse when you see your ex? Do you want to rip her clothes off (like the good 'ol days), do you avoid or chat to her; do you think of the memories you shared or simply are indifferent and couldn't give a fcku?
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I saw my ex from 5 years ago at 5K race last weekend. I moved out of state but recently moved back. It was really packed and most people were wearing sunglasses. I was about 25 feet behind her at the starting line w/ a ton of other runners. She was some other guy and they were joking/flirting around. I walked around from a different angle just make sure it was her. I saw a tattoo on her wrist which confirmed my suspicion. I then walked far away. I really wasn't in the mood to talk to her (although a twisted part of me wanted her to notice e.
This girl really broke my heart. We only dated for 3 months... but she stopped talking to me and ran off with another guy with zero warning. Also I never went all the way with her although we did fool around a bit (finger banged her a few times). She kept making up excuses (it's too early, I'm having my period, etc). Truth is she just didn't want to do it with me. That put a dent my in my confidence. I since then met several other girls, including a one year relationship. However the old feeling in my gut sprung up. Anyway I was hoping she would look like shit... but unfortunately looked real good. I'm just relieved she didn't notice me.0