In the wake of a break-up, do you find yourself questioning whether you could have done something different when it wasn't your fault, do you put undue blame on the other person when it was your fault, or would you say you're pretty objective?
- I tend to put undue blame on the other personVote A
- I tend to put undue blame on myselfVote B
- I try to keep a balanced view and mostly succeedVote C
- Meh, I don't let myself get invested in the first placeVote D
Most Helpful Girl
I voted B, but I think it mostly depends on how soon after the break up we're talking. Immediately after, I'll blame myself. In the anger phase, I'll blame the other person. Once I'm able to gain some perspective (ie enough time has passed for the break up to no longer sting), I can see it objectively.0