- I tend to put undue blame on the other person
- I tend to put undue blame on myself
- I try to keep a balanced view and mostly succeed
- Meh, I don't let myself get invested in the first place
Most Helpful Girl
I voted B, but I think it mostly depends on how soon after the break up we're talking. Immediately after, I'll blame myself. In the anger phase, I'll blame the other person. Once I'm able to gain some perspective (ie enough time has passed for the break up to no longer sting), I can see it objectively.
Most Helpful Guy
I focus more on just solving the issue then just pointing fingers which unfortunately is the exact opposite for my society. We care more about finding out who we can blame than actually solving the issues at hand. I put blame where it's due and I do it only if I think it can solve some issue or prevent one in the future.