I found out my girlfriend cheated on me... I'm so upset at her that I shut down and now I am giving her the silent treatment. I'm usually treating her with a lot of love and care but cheating is like back stabbing and the most disrespectful thing my heart is so broken.
is my behavior ok? I mean this is my way of saying I'm done she keeps texting me asking me for closure
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You're behaviour is what I would expect. I have been hurt and angry with my husband... he didn't cheat, he just cuts me down and sometimes says extremely hurtful things and I shut down like you have. I am a sensitive person.
You're girlfriend violated your trust and now she is asking you for a favour by giving her closure. You owe her nothing! Look after yourself and do what you need to do to get over it - if you need the closure then fine meet her but if you'd rather not ever see her again than just dont. You didn't do the wrong thing here...0