Well to make it short, yesterday I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 months, I was being all emotional and hormonal.. I said I wanted to be single for awhile, I need to sort out my feelings then deleted him off my FB and our Couple app. Anyway after I was all calmed today, I texted him apologizing, A LONGGG MESSAGE
then this is what he said:
Iris, I wanted only the best for you and for us.
But I'm not going to play along with your mind changing. You made a choice, regardless of the shot or not. And your actions yesterday showed a lot more than what was said. There's no excuse for how you acted.
I then responded to that with something about wanting to fight for us, if you want as well, and if not, I understand.
He finally said: I tried Iris. You said it yourself you want to be single. I feel terrible that everything came crashing so fast... But I knew something was wrong and was giving you space to cool off then you said you wanted things to end. So they did. I can't do that again or take the risk of it again... I am sorry.
I hope we at least keep in touch as friends, but you proved you didn't want that either.
My question is: Is it really over, as I am in denial stage. I really hope he will come around. This sucks
Most Helpful Guy
You have to understand the choice you made was a bad decision, you have gone into relationship, acting all emotional, and you allowed your emotions control your actions. Now you have paid the price for your emotional state.
A person, who has control over their emotions, has control over their life.
I am sorry to say, its over with your boyfriend. I can understand where he is coming from, he afraid, this will happen to him again. He can't risk that happening again, you have basically betrayed his trust.
I suggested to you, that you going to need its over. and forgive yourself for what happened. Learn from it and move on. I also suggest you take your time, to work on yourself for a while, and sort any issues you have got going on your life.
I am going to give you a video to watch, and I want you watch it. It will help you. Its how to attract the opposite sex, but I want you to watch it for other reason, which I think will help you a lot.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XlfKNqoL8JY0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Most Helpful Girl
i think it's over /:0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE